Tuesdays with Ronald: Determination

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By Ronald Colunga

 

Determination: firmness of purpose 

Take a second to really let that word sink in. 
 
Has it sunk in yet? Well then, lets continue!
 
Let me tell you a personal story about me in the hopes that it will inspire you. If you didn’t know, I am 18 years old. Trying to achieve my dreams at this age is very difficult. Not because of money (which most people would assume) but because of the number itself. When I tell people I am 18, they officially think I am to young to do anything. They think that because I am 18 my thoughts arent where they are suppose to be, I am not determined to do anything, or plain and simple “I am just to young.”
 
I don’t let this get to me. I keep going in life, focused & determined. I have dreams that I WILL achieve. I believe there is no one stopping me, but myself. That is one word I use quite a lot in my vocabulary. “Believe” pretty strong word isnt it?
 
Let’s get back into the story. I gratuated high school at 17. At the same time, I had just lost my job (happened to most people during these times though didn’t it?) But hey, it’s fine! I kept moving forward, saying to myself that things will get better. A few months after this I turned 18. My passport had expired & my social security card is not applicable to work (I was not born in this country however, I am an American Citizen.) I lost three jobs, because of this. Not lost jobs entirely, because I never exactly had them. My work papers would never go through. So I never really started.
 
While doing all this paperwork. I tried making opportunities for myself. After 2 months, I finally landed one. It was for a small marketing company called Focused Inc in Las Vegas. It was a non-paid internship, I knew this would be difficult but I was determined to stick through it, I knew it would help me out in the future. I stayed with this company for 3 months interning. Learning everything I could learn! I learned so much about Social Media Marketing, Email Marketing, Business Operations, Etc. I was very happy at this company, but I could only do so much by not recieving an income. The business owner at Focused Inc, a dear friend of mine. Referred me to a larger company based out of Las Vegas as well. My time with Focused was done.
 
All this was a span of about oh, 5 months. No income, relying on my parents for every single thing. I was late on my insurance. Overdrafted on my bank account several times, and have been wearing the same jeans for several months (disgusting I know.) I refused to ask my parents for any other kind of money, than the amount I desperately needed. People thought because I was 18, I wasnt going anywhere. People expected me to fail (I already was in peoples eyes) and it was only a matter of time before it all went downhill.
 
I have been interning for this new company (AdLava) for about one month now. AdLava is one of the largest (if not the largest) web design companies in Las Vegas. I am now the Social Media Director for this company. I handle all the social media for huge clients and I am the reason Social Media was added on to this company.
 
My story might not be that inspiring to people, and thats fine with me.However, It has inspired me to start my own website Lifessteppingstone.com. It has inspired to go after what I want in life. It has showed me that no matter how young I am, I can do big things. No matter what obstacles are thrown at me in life, If I keep my head up I will get passed them. I was taught to believe in myself and my dreams. I was inspired to FOLLOW MY DREAMS.
 
I hope you got something out of this story. I hope you will go out into the world and achieve your biggest dreams. I hope no matter what people tell you, you will keep striving. I hope you keep determined. Doesn’t matter what age, ethnicity, or skin color you are. I want to leave you guys with three last words, and hope they make the biggest impact of all.
 
FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS
 
 

Editor’s Note:  Go over and take a look at Lifessteppingstone.com! where Ronald writes his thoughts. You’ll be gald you did it!

Tuesdays with Ronald: Follow your Dreams

This past week I’ve seen many people approaching dreams the wrong way. I keep seeing that “dreams, are just a mirage” I keep seeing “dreams are only that…they are DREAMS.”
I can’t agree with any of this!
Dreams aren’t a mirage…they aren’t just dreams and nothing more.
In my world, dreams are the true realities. If you work hard towards achieving that dream, then they are able to become a reality correct? Dreams are only a “mirage” or unreal” if you make them that way. Work hard towards achieving that dream, make it a reality. Now with all that being said, I have one question for you guys.

What Are Dreams?

A Note from Ronald: Hey everyone! Ronald here from Life’s Stepping Stone. Wanted to give you guys a personal message. Please, please, please! Follow you’re dreams! Don’t let anyone hold you back. People are always going to doubt an individual. You cannot let this get to you, you cannot give up. People always tell me because of my age, I can’t do all the things that I am doing now. I don’t listen to them, I keep moving forward. Keeping my dream in mind, and I WILL FOLLOW IT! If you want to connect with me, you could do so on Facebook & Twitter also, stay tuned for my upcoming FREE Ebook: Follow Your Dreams! Have a great day today everyone!

Day 2 – 100% Commitmment

Day 2: Honey (our youngest sister) said why not make it a year of writing some inspiring notes? I’d say 30 days muna (for now), because I want to put in my 100% commitment into this. Having a 100% commitment in everything you do, makes a whole different world. It is defnitely different from saying “I’m interested in doing this” versus doing it 100%. When you are 100% committed, you are doing it no matter what. No matter how busy you are, you are going to do it; it’s like getting into the habit of brushing your teeth – na (that), once you’ve commited to brushing your teeth before bedtime, you know that even if you are so tired, you would still have to get yourself up, drag yourself to the bathroom and do your teeth brushing. If not, you know that your day is not yet over without doing it.

It’s the same thing with pursuing your dreams and whatever your wants are. NO MATTER WHAT (happens, will happen or has happened) you’ve got to have to do it! You have got to do it! Because it will not feel right. You will not feel right.

I remember when we were in college and the fad was to have braces on, and I know there is no way we could afford to have them on, but because I wanted to look like “sosyal”  (preppy/ellite)I have to have it. So, ano’ng ginawa ko (what did I do)? I worked and worked part-time even if it meant going home at 11:00 PM or midnight – or taking the jeepney to Manang  (a term of endearmet to somebody who is older – but she was actually our orthodontist)Aileen’s office to pay the monthly installment and having the rubber on my braces removed and cleaned. Was that a commitmment? Sure was – especially to somebody who really did not have anything back then.

 

Ok – til tomorrow!

- A. M. S.