Tuesdays with Ronald: Achieving your Dreams

Photo of Frederick Claflin

By Ronald Colunga

Let’s keep it going this week with life reflections.

I want you to think in depth about this one. Answer the question in the comment section below.

As you guys know I’m a sucker for individuals following their dreams. However, it is not an easy road is it?

There are plenty of variables and obstacles in your way. Nothing comes in this life for free, eh? I want you guys to answer the following question:

What are three things you think you need to achieve your dreams.

 

Editor’s Note:  Go over and take a look at Lifessteppingstone.com! where Ronald writes his thoughts. You’ll be glad you did!

Saturday Success Story #21: Katherine Jarmin-Rogers

By Alpha Miguel-Sanford

Katherine Jarmin-Rogers, “Erin” to most people is a very busy woman. She is the Senior QC Analyst for a Pharmaceutical Company in the Boston area, the mother of two lovely children, Sophia and Jianna and also the owner of custom-made cake company, Katherine’s Budget Cakes. She loves to bake, cook and entertain friends in their house inNorth Attleboro,MA.

Despite her many responsibilities, she always manages to be on top of everything! She is determined, unfettered for failure and offers a lot of talent to people around her. Being a mother to two young children and also a career-woman, whose job involves some traveling in and out of the United States, it takes some superpower skills to be able to excel in both areas.  But she makes it seems too easy in juggling both! Her smile and carefree attitude definitely help in the way she balances her life. Her focus, determination and her passion in life make her path to parenting and life in general very fulfilling.

As a woman whose job demands thought-process and science, I can also consider her as a rarity. Being in the science field sometimes mean you have to be a “genius”, but she loves what she does and excels in it! She even combines her chemistry background as she mixes and bakes beautiful custom-made cakes that everyone loves from her own kitchen.

Erin, being the daughter of two successful Filipino parents (Mr. Manuel Jarmin and Ms. Ruby Teotico) has learned that no matter what comes her way, she knows she needs to work and make it happen. She is doing it now and she will continue to do so, for her children, her husband and for her own success!

This is her story:

AMS: You have been a Chemist for one of the biggest lab companies in New Englandfor a few years now – and recently you became the Senior Analyst in another company – how did you get there? Could you tell your background?

Erin: After I graduated from college, I worked a few odd jobs. I worked as a telemarketer for AIG, customer service representative for Experian and even in sales for Forever Living Products. Unfortunately back in thePhilippines, there were no jobs for people with my Chemistry degree. There were maybe 2-4 pharmaceutical companies in total and no open positions. Medical school was not an option for me either even though I was accepted into medical school. We just did not have the money for it.

I ended up landing my first chemistry-related job as a lab tech for United Laboratories (makers of Biogesic, Alaxan, etc) and this was a 6-month contract position which paid PHP 287/day ($6/day). Up until that time, I had not worked at all in a laboratory outside of my university and I immediately loved it. I knew that this was what I wanted to do.

When my contract was up in July 2005, I came to theUS to visit family members and met my husband, John. I ended up staying here in theUS and in November, John and I were married. You could say that it was destiny that I ended up inBoston which just so happens to be thriving in the biotech industry! So from there, I was hired as a Chemist for AstraZeneca and worked there for about a year and then on to ImmunoGen as a QC Analyst II for 4.5 years and lastly to IPSEN as a Senior QC Analyst.

AMS: What motivated you to be where you are now?

Erin: I’ve always loved science. I love to understand how things work and how things are made. As far as working in a biotech company that makes a possible cure for cancer (at Immunogen) and hemophilia (at IPSEN) makes me feel that I am working towards making a difference in the world.

AMS: Do you love being the “boss” at work? What makes you a stand-out “boss” – or an impeccable manager at one of the best lab in Boston?

Erin: I currently do not manage people but I manage projects. Hopefully in a few years and after I have gained much more experience in this company, I know I will be ready to manage my own team.

AMS: Growing up, what did you learn that up to these days you are still doing it?

Erin:  Growing up, I’ve learned that if I wanted something done, I have to do it myself :)

AMS: Did you ever have a role model? Who was/were he/they? What did they teach you?

Erin: I would have to say that my role model would be my mom. She’s always on-the-go, always there for me and my sisters. She’s a very independent woman. She runs a successful business inSan Jose, Mindoro Occidental.

AMS: As a chemist a and now a Senior Analyst, were you ever confronted with a difficulty situation – but you were able to resolve it and told yourself that you were proud of it?

Erin: I am constantly confronted with difficult situations and changing priorities on a daily basis. I guess you could say it comes with the territory. I’ve learned that the only way to deal with these situations and to not get overwhelmed is to stop what I am doing, take a deep breath, assess the situation and go at it again.

AMS: There are a lot of Filipinos who would like to be in the same field as you are, what do you think they need to learn and be prepared for before taking the job?

Erin: They need to know what they are worth and know what they can contribute. Never set yourself short. Never settle for less than what you deserve.

AMS: Finally – what is your definition of success?

Erin:  These would be my two best definitions of success:

Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. ~Winston Churchill

What is success? It is a toy balloon among children armed with pins. ~Gene Fowler

To read other inspiring Success Stories, click here.

Wednesdays with Buena: Energize your Day

By Buenaflor Laoang

Dear Me,

Now that you realize the things you’ve been missing terribly in life- giving that love within you away—will you just be content staying at your bed too long? Planning your schedule over and over? Dreaming of your beautiful visions but in a rocking chair?

Move!

You have displayed enough laziness and boredom, Buena. .  You’re tired feeling the same way.  It is healthy that you recognized that about you. Now—it is time to move! You think you are drying up your bones and losing your directions, get up!  Walk!  Run! Energize yourself!

You’ll not get anywhere if you don’t do it now.

Yours,

Yourself

——

Yes, if you are wanting change in your life, to recover things about yourself like what I’ve personally been into lately;  after remembering who you are the next thing to do,  literally is—RUN!  (Three to five kilometers if you may!).

Energize yourself!

As I am typing this down, I just had my jog.  I have started doing it before by joining fun runs but neglected for many months—because of that phase I told you about last Wednesday: dryness.  Then, a friend (Janelle Ong) posted how she has been doing in her almost daily runs. You may want to check it out here:

When you see her, you’d really see her glowing, shining, and redeeming her youth! She looks fresh, and so active, and happy.  Her facebook posts about her runs even reverberate the energy she is having.

Now, I looked at myself—lazybones and fat.  And without starting to change, I may one day die as that! And worse, without accomplishing my purposes in life, or without even starting the missions I’ve been given. Of course, I dread that day I will leave earth, still lazybones and fats accomplishing their purpose on my belly, but me not having gone anywhere.

So today at the break of dawn, I ran about three kilometers or so by our neighborhood road- Rizal Street, to the neighboring barrio.  On my way, I had been praying, reached a clear plan of my day, released all the negatives, and enjoyed my sweat.  My run caused me to even see and embrace the wonders of things which I will tell you about next Wednesday, or which you can discover for yourself, if you RUN NOW (or first thing by your morning).

Be with me for the seven Wednesdays before New Year in this series, REFRESH! : Seven (7) Nice Things To Do Before New Year.  Because of the energy of the jog, I am able to get this concept to share with you, only here at Aspire.Motivate.Succeed.

Have a nice and energized day! Goodbye to our “old” lazybones! ;)

Editor’s Notes: Be sure to also follow Buenaflor Laoang on Facebook at Fragrant Lives. Befriend her on FB and if you are in the Philippines, she might be able to help you with your tutoring needs.

10 Keys to Happiness

Photo of Frederick Claflin

By Derek Haakman

The key to happiness is to appreciate what you have. Sounds simple? Then why are so many people still unhappy? Happiness is really a state of mind, so learn how to embrace the good, to stop worrying and to just be happy. Of course being happy is great for your relationship. Share this with your mate so you can be happy together. Recipe for success.

1. TIME’S UP

Be happy now. Be grateful for what you have today, rather than dwelling on what you don’t have. Practice being satisfied with what you have now while you work in pursuit of the things you want for your future. Start by counting your blessings.

2. CHANGES

Understand what you can – and can’t – change. Things take time. Work on what you can to improve your life right now, understand what will take some time, and accept that there are always things that you just can’t change. Accept those truths.

3. SMILE

Put a smile on your face and it will change how you feel and the way that people react to you. A smile becomes the outward reflection of an inner feeling. Try it!

4. CHOOSE

Happiness is a choice. It’s a choice we make every day. So decide that you will choose to look on the bright side today.

5. DEAL

Deal with it. Whatever life hands you, don’t place blame…it’s a waste of time and energy and drains away your happiness. Accept responsibility for dealing with whatever comes your way. Placing blame or feeling sorry for yourself won’t solve problems. But you can.

6. 100%

Give your best effort to everything that you do. Life will support you and you’ll feel a sense of satisfaction, pride and happiness  if you always give 100% effort to what you’re doing.

7. CLARIFY

Realize what matters. It’s not what you get, it’s what you become! Have high expectations for an improved you. Nobody can make you happier – that job is up to you. Work on yourself.

8. THE VIEW

Look at things from a different angle. Is it a problem, or an opportunity to take action? Problems are good teachers if you face them head-on.

9. DOWNSIZE

One step at a time! Put things in perspective. No problem is too great or opportunity too small if you take it in small bites. Tackle tasks, issues and problems piece by piece and congratulate yourself for your wise approach.

10. THE COMPANY YOU KEEP

Choose your companions carefully. There are people who have a positive attitude and are uplifting, just as there are those with negative attitudes that can bring you down. Choose to surround yourself with individuals who are happy – and who make you happy, too.

Day 79: Fill in the blanks (Part Two)

Photo by: Joana Martin

Today’s post is an extension of last Tuesday’s Fill in the blanks. If you missed the previous post, you can go back on the link previously provided and complete that first and then come back here.

This is for fun only – however, it does bring back memories of yesteryear’s “slumbook” or “autograph book”, where we would ask our friends to write in these precious books about their deepest secrets, including the names of their crushes, favorite dishes and color! Looking back I must have done at least a couple of them while in high school.

One of our readers (our very FIRST BLOG SUBSCRIBER), MS. Joannalene Escarlos-Abayon, (who used to grace many of my slumbooks)  took her time and shared to us her answers. Despite her hectic schedule as a working Mom (currently based in Dubai UAE), she stopped and reflected on these important prompts. Thank you, Lhen!

Now…it’s your turn!

Reflect…Think…Answer…

1.My home is ……
2. My life is….
3. I am happy when…
4. My love is…
5.My future is….
6. My dream is…

Below are the answers from  Ms. Joannalene Escarlos-Abayon:

1. My home is ……where my loving husband and my two adorable kids live.
2. My life is….simple yet fulfilling. I always feel blessed everyday.
3. I am happy when… I spend time with my kids. When you are a working mom, spending time with your kids is priceless.
4. My love is…unconditional.
5. My future is….my choice.
6. My dream is…bigger than I.

Daily with you,

- Alpha

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