Special Edition Story: Crosby Tatum on “Surprise, Surprise”

By Alpha Miguel-Sanford

Crosby Tatum is up for a cause! He is the producer, director, actor, film editor for his first film “Surprise, Surprise!!!” which he and his partner Jacquin Holland have been working for over five years.

Crosby also wants your support for his project.

In his upcoming film “Surprise, Surprise”  a romantic comedy about a smart, but socially under confident college student who tricks his womanizing best friend into switching identities, to date a beautiful, charming internet girl, to save his grades and his scholarship, Crosby wants something out of it. He wants to encourage viewers to encourage self-confidence and increase self-esteem. He knows about being intimated and being left out; he was in that situation before!

Having experienced that, he wants to send out a message about his project.

This is his story:

AMS: Tell us about yourself and what are you currently involved in.

Crosby: I’m a producer, director, writer, actor, editor, musician fromBoston,MA, my hometown.  Currently I am involved in over 5 different film, television, commercial, music projects at various stages and working on a feature film with Mark Wahlburg’s older brother, Arthur Wahlburg, called “Learn From The Master.”  We are currently shooting at the moment.

AMS: When did you start Triceptus Studios? What made you build this company? Tell us about the mission of you company?

Crosby: I started Triceptus Studios back in 2002 as my own venture, inspired by a class project I did at my college, The New England Institute of Art inBrookline,MA.  What made me build Triceptus Studios into what we are today was directly centered around our accomplishments in our early years of inception.  In 2003, we had an award-winning variety TV series called “The Beantown Block”.  We also produced and aired two other comedy pilots called, “DA’ Block Presents” (sketch comedy), and “All 4our One” (sitcom) in theNew England region.  We also worked on several music video & short film projects that were accepted into over five different film festivals in theNew England/New York Area.  We also produced our first music offering, “Laz & Cat – Tricity Vol. 1.”  That is currently on iTunes, Amazon, and many online music retailers worldwide.  We continuously develop new & exciting ideas and content for all entertainment mediums available and in development, which is our company’s mission: “to make creative, innovative, thought-provoking, and exciting entertainment for audiences around the world.”

AMS: You are in the process of creating your first film, “Surprise, Surprise” with Jacquin Holland. Tell us about this exciting project.

Crosby: Well, Surprise, Surprise is a romantic comedy about a smart, but socially underconfident college student who tricks his womanizing best friend into dating a beautiful, charming internet woman, to save his grades and his scholarship.  Its a film that has high stakes, high rewards, and high hilarity, with a story that you can enjoy with your family and friends.  We currently have Maya Gilbert attached to our film.  She is a Hollywood actress who has worked on TNT’s Southland, NBC’s Harry’s Law, and was recently in Ava Duvernay’s 2012 Sundance film, “Middle of Nowhere”.  Myself and Jacquin are slated right now to produce, direct, and act in the film, and we’re talking to anotherHollywood actress to join our project.

AMS: Who is/ are inspiration behind your first film?

Crosby: Believe it or not, this film’s inspiration comes from my experiences dealing with low self-esteem, and social underconfidence issues when it comes to talking with women.  It’s also inspired by my experiences dating online and also taking shortcuts with finding the right girl to be with rather than meeting them out in the open.  My friends are also inspirations behind this story because I believe from my observations hanging with them while they talk to different women, they can just pick girls up by the mere glance at them and grab their numbers up like their eating an extra tall stack of hot-butter pancakes, effortlessly mind you.  That is in stark comparison with myself who has to summon up a big, tall glass of courage, just to say ‘hello’ to someone hoping I don’t mix my words up or trip on my own shoe laces.

AMS: Why is this film very important to you? How will this impact the rest of the viewers.

Crosby: This film is important to me because, this is my story I want to share with everyone.  Social underconfidence and low self-esteem has been an issue with myself for so long that, I feel like I need to make this film to help myself become more open and more sociable with others, including the opposite sex.  At the same time I feel like our film might help inspire and encourage our viewers to become more sociable and confident in themselves, inspiring them for higher goals, and to just be open and honest with themselves in regard to the things they love or want in life.

AMS: How would you finance this film?

Crosby: Great question.  Because our budget is around $350,000 dollars, the best way for us to finance our film is to seek out private investors while also seeking sponsors for financial and vendor help.  To raise a portion of our budget, we just started a 30-day online fundraiser on indiegogo.com, a “crowd-funding” website, to get the ball rolling with financing this movie.  How indiegogo.com works is, we set a financial goal to raise for our film, to acquire talent and begin production.  In our case, our goal is set to $50,000 dollars.  People worldwide join in on our film project by donating as little as $1 dollar, which will lead us to reach our goal before our time limit is up.  In exchange for all donations, each donor gets a reward from us for every donation they make.  We keep the money if we reach our goal or not.  But if we don’t reach our goal, our film will be “negatively affected”, and we might not be able to make our movie.  Our fundraiser is online at: www.indiegogo.com/surprise.  Please share it with your family, friends, and colleagues alike.

AMS: How do you envision this film?

Crosby: I envision our film as an urbanized, “Cyrano de Bergerac”, that meets “The Kings Speech”, “The Social Network”, and “Van Wilder” at the curb.  In some ways, our film is almost like a throwback to some of the crazy, colorful black comedies of the 90′s and early 2000′s.  Such examples would be films like “Booty Call”, “Sprung”, “Friday”, and “Strictly Business”.  Our film will just has a lot more modern day references and technology in it, tossed in with our own colorful, smooth cinematic style we’re known for.

AMS: In creating and developing the idea of this inspiring romantic comedy film, what are some of the obstacles you encountered and how did you overcome them?

Crosby: We had several obstacles that have stood in our way of getting ready to make this film.  One of them is basically money because, to make a great picture with the right cast and crew, your gonna need the money, there’s no way around that.  But, one of the more challenging obstacles we’ve faced was, overcoming objections from those who really don’t see this film in the manner that we see it and getting people on board with our film.  That as it may be, we believe in our goal, we believe in our film and the talent we have, and we’re happy to be in the position we’re in now.

AMS: What do you think are the skills needed in order to become a successful film maker?

Crosby: I think you gotta have a little bit of a thick skin when it comes to being a filmmaker because, it’s highly competitive, very close knit, everyone has an opinion whether you like it or not.  You just have to believe in yourself and your abilities, and you just have to produce and execute solid content.  Relationships are key in this business because it’s talent-driven.  It just comes down to making sure you develop and foster your own style, you have a solid network of individuals to support you, and you continuously stay busy producing, directing, acting, or anything active in filmmaking.  Everything else will fall through.  Just stay patient.

AMS: Do you thinkBostoncould be the nextHollywood?

Crosby: I believe so.  We’ve been fortunate to house many big-time productions like “Zookeeper” and “Grown-Ups” and “The Town” thanks in part to the Massachusetts Film Office which facilitates the Massachusetts Film Tax Credit.  Boston and in particular,Massachusetts has been fortunate to work with many of the industry’s finest from around the world and we want to continue the work.  Until we have a self-reliant major production and distribution studio that can house both independent and major film and TV productions here inBoston, and essentiallyMassachusetts,Hollywood will beHollywood andBoston will always be a place whereHollywood uses for its productions.  We need to change that.  That’s just my opinion on the matter.

AMS: Finally, what is your definition of success.

Crosby: To me, success is saying something that you want to do, and doing exactly what you said you would do.  Results always change.  The outcome might not be what you expect it.  But if you stay focused on your goal, work hard to get it, and not detour yourself away from it, you will achieve it.  The moment you achieve your goal is the moment you’ll find success.  Anyone who wants success, just say what you want to do.  Then go do it.  Success will be waiting for you in the end.

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Day 46: The Lesson Behind Cinderella’s Story

We all know the story of Cinderella, of her wicked stepmother and her stepsisters (Anastacia and Drizella), of her glass slipper and of her Prince. We are all familiar how the story ended with a “happy ever after” note.

But do you know a lesson or two behind Cinderella’s story, with the exception of her rags-to-riches claim to fame?

>>> (Think.)

>>> (Think again.)

Yesterday, while Tala and I were reading the story of Cinderella (Disney’s version), the following line caught my eye:

“But no matter how hard Cinderella worked, she never stopped dreaming.”

Never stop dreaming.

That’s it!

That is the lesson behind Cinderella’s story.

That is also the reason why Cinderella was able to get out of the misery from her stepmother’s household and the very same reason, why she married the man of her dreams.

You should be like Cinderella!

You should never stop dreaming – even if you are currently unemployed and feels that the economy is not getting any better; even if you think it is impossible for you to finish a four-year college; even if you think the world is on your shoulders; even if you find yourself crying every night out of desperation. You should keep on dreaming.

And also – keep your faith.

Why not?

Dreaming is free. You do not need to pay anybody to get into dream land and start thinking about the life that you envision.

Dreaming is fun (makes you smile too). You get to escape from your malady and feel like you are the Princess in your story.

Dreaming is your first step to reaching your goals.

Why not?

If Cinderella did it, so can you!

- Alpha

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Day 30: In Reaching for our Dreams

(This is an excerpt from the speech I delivered on behalf of the undergraduates  during my Graduation Ceremony at the University of the Philippines-Diliman College of Education  at the UP Film Center. As I re-type this speech from our Yearbook, the memories of yesteryears and of my own aspirations and dreams are very easy to rekindle. Those of you who were present during my undergraduate ceremony, may still have recollections of the authenticity of the words I wrote in this speech – I hope those of you who weren’t there, will share the same feelings as well.)

“In Reaching for our Dreams”

Standing here I am humbled by the crowd in front of me. I feel even tinier than usual, yet with the honor bestowed upon me, I feel like I am the tallest girl in this room. Once I’ve thought there could be a better person than what I was. Twice, I’ve thought there is a greater chance I can do my best. Thrice, I was inspired to be closer to my dreams. For the fourth time, I realized I am my dreams, that there is nothing which can stand between me and the person I want to be and that’s when I thought dreams could be real.

Like what everyone seems to be contemplating at this moment, I had in my mind this dream of graduating with flying colors – but sometimes when you work harder than you’ve realized you did, you come to a point  where a big lo and behold banner embraces you in a thread-line boundary.

When I entered the university four years ago, I knew I could only be an ordinary crap who hailed from one of the never-heard places somewhere in the North; who didn’t have a name; didn’t have any material things to show off; didn’t have anything at all. I was just a provincial girl with a provincial culture, with nothing in my hands and nothing to look up to – except my will and my dream to have a better life for me and my family. Geez, I was so envious of the students who have gotten themselves with a seat of confidence and a shield of almost knowing the know-hows and the how-tos of the university life – just because they had the conveniences of life – which I mostly desired but couldn’t possibly own because  my family was simply not capable of. I then realized my differences among the not-so-ordinary lifestyles of my classmates and me. That me think otherwise, that maybe, I could also be like them – just one of those persons who belong, who seem to be enjoying life with their simple luxuries, if only I try to. In short, I tried to be like a real UP-ian, smart-ass and quick-witted – so they say, for me to garner something, to boost my pitiful self in trying to compete in a world where materials things are valued. The challenges that come along with wanting to get there were not always part of my dreams though, in this case I chose what will bring me closer to my dreams.

One of my friends once said, “If you don’t get closer to your dreams, it may be because you keep on changing dreams, it happens.”

In my case I have to admit I changed my dreams a lot of times but my inspirations remained still. Whenever I think of them, I switch from  my almost losing self to another renewed one with high hopes and promises to fulfill. And that’s where I got myself into at this very moment.

There is more to achieving our dreams than the feeling of being honored, and that is the joy of sharing with the people who are  more important than the achievement itself. Looking back, there are no greater persons to pay homage for other than my parents. True enough, many people have helped me get through the university but none of them can surpass the contributions my parents had to offer me, all along – all throughout not only during my university life, but my whole life itself.

As a daughter of both public school teachers I was taught the lesson of the three D’s – Discipline, Devotion and Dream.

At an early age my father instilled in me the virtue of discipline. I can still remember one day, of how he grabbed my body all together and put me under the table to let me understand what the word “under” means and put my five-year old fragile body “on” the table for me to know the concept of the word “on”.

I learned virtue of devotion from my parents’ passion to live. I was a witness to the hardships of the meager financial returns my parents get from the laborious work they do in school that we sometimes suffer from it. Their monthly salary couldn’t just stay for a week on their hands and was already exhausted even before the next payday. My parents had to work double time in growing vegetables to earn extra income for the family. Seeing them work under the heat and allowing their bones to crack one after the other  broke my heart not once, but a hundred million times. It always hurts me to see them physically tortured for our benefit and even sometimes neglecting themselves all with their dreams of giving us the best education. There were even times when my younger siblings had to be patient and wait for more months to buy something for themselves just because I needed the money for my studies. And even at most times when the rest of the family had to sacrifice eating good meals only for the sake of their older sister’s education.  My parents, together with my siblings were my constant motivating factors in school.

Nonetheless, it was a pressure for me not to do my  best and just be contented with mediocrity. Moreover, they taught me that we have in our hearts full of cosmic laws that whatever we hold in thought with total devotion comes true in experience. Being devoted to whatever we do changes our thoughts and therefore changes our lives.

In the university, life is not as easy an attached arrow to a bow. One needs to have a heart, faith and skill in order to shoot for the bull’s eye and before we’ve known it, life has wrapped itself in victory. Now that we’re passed through that stage, we just have to play safe and be extra cautious to where our arrows might bring us to. Patience, prayers, and hard-work will payoff the investment that we have exerted to reach our dreams. If there were nothing for us to learn here at the university, we wouldn’t have bothered to pay the fare and we wouldn’t have dared to look straight ahead. The dreamers that we were might have become hopeless not until we had known that there’s still room for us to grow, and dream even bigger than our minds can imagine. And in reaching our dreams we should always look back to where we’ve come from because whoever we will be, whoever we are now, ie because of who we were before.

Indeed, let us be in control of the destinations of our bows and tell each of its arrows to go as far as we can, for long as we can, and as soon as we can…for our dreams are waiting for us to be fulfilled, long before we’ve known it – all for our parents and family.

God bless us all!

(***….drumroll please…***Then, all I heard after that was great applause and sniffles!)

 - A. M. S.

Day 25: Have it your way

Yes, this is from Burker King’s famous advertising line! Does it work? Sure it does, many folds. I remember hearing the story behind this phrase and how it revolutionized the way people’s orders are being taken. When I look back, it sure does make people happier, including me.

A few days ago on our way up to NH, we stopped by a BK joint in Tilton,NH for a quick bite. As I placed our order, I asked the staff member if I could get the milk for Tala’s kiddie meal order instead of the apple juice and her reply was, “You can order anything you want. You’ll have it your way!” then, she smiled as she punched in our final order.

Looking at the previous scenario made me really think about one of the concepts in the book, The Secret  by Rhonda Bryne which I read many moons ago. In one of the chapters there, it was stated that whatever you ask the universe, the universe will respond to you the way you had formulated your question. For example, if you wanted a Haymarket Burberry bag in medium size – you must really put this exact image of this particular brand to the universe (in the form of positive thinking,affirmations, etc.) and the universe will respond back, exactly how you send out to the world.

It is like ordering food- you have to really know first what you want and then place your order. Once you have placed your order, you are going to really love what you ordered and be excited about it – after all, you’ve paid money and was craving to have your orders fulfilled perfectly!

So, if you want something – place your “order” any way you like it.

But be careful what you ask for, you might just get it.

 

- Alpha

 

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Day 23: Practice. 10, 000 hours will make you an expert! –Malcolm Gladwell

The theme in the book Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell is about successful people and how they were able to get there. It was clear how he analyzed and compared that not just the inherent skills of these people that made them who they are but a big part of them was also because of persistence and practice. He mentioned throughout the entire book that every successful person who is part of the American history or the world history and who has made a huge impact in the lives of mankind would have to have at least 10, 000 hours of practice, training, internship, hands-on learning before that person can be considered an expert in a field that he is associated with.

In reference to the 10, 000 hours of practice equals expertise, Malcolm Gladwell shared the story of how Bill Gates didn’t just become a computer geek overnight but he started way before he went to Harvard. When he was in high school, apparently he would sneak out in the middle of the night to his campus and re-construct or sometimes program some of their school’s computer codes and will stay there until dawn. It was to his advantage that their house is very close to his school, which during that time was the very first high school in the USA to have computer networking. He would toil hours and hours, from Mondays to Sundays during his high school years until he got to college. If you do your math, you multiply 7 hours times 7 days, that is 49 hours in a week; then multiply that by 52 (weeks) which is equals to 2, 548 hours; then multiply that by the number of years he was in high school, which was four – the magic number would total up to: 10, 192 hours!  By the time he went to Harvard he was already an expert. During his sophomore year, he dropped out – because he knows more than his professors knew that time.

The Beattles were also a legendary example of practicing 10, 000 hours  before they were able to rise to stardom. During the years of 1960 – 1963, they were playing in every possible clubs available in Liverpool and Hamburg, of which they gained more skills and learned to play, wrote songs at their best. When they first arrived in the US in 1964 for their tour, they had already over 10, 000 hours under their belt – and were ready to conquer the music industry.

Of course, we’ve heard the story of Thomas Edison going through at least 1, 000 light bulbs before he finally came up with the “perfect” light bulb.  We’ve read stories about local musicians, writers, singers, basketball players, etc. practicing until they can no longer move their bodies. But because of diligence and the habit of practicing, each of these individuals were able to prove that they can be the experts in their field.

Would you like to be successful in your field?

Do you think you have rendered at least 10, 000 hours in the area you chose to be successful in?

Would you like to be an expert in your field?

Would you be willing to continue to work beyond 10, 000 hours?

Practice.

Clock in 10, 000 hours or even more.

You’ll know, you’ll be an expert.

- Alpha

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