Day 25: Have it your way

Yes, this is from Burker King’s famous advertising line! Does it work? Sure it does, many folds. I remember hearing the story behind this phrase and how it revolutionized the way people’s orders are being taken. When I look back, it sure does make people happier, including me.

A few days ago on our way up to NH, we stopped by a BK joint in Tilton,NH for a quick bite. As I placed our order, I asked the staff member if I could get the milk for Tala’s kiddie meal order instead of the apple juice and her reply was, “You can order anything you want. You’ll have it your way!” then, she smiled as she punched in our final order.

Looking at the previous scenario made me really think about one of the concepts in the book, The Secret  by Rhonda Bryne which I read many moons ago. In one of the chapters there, it was stated that whatever you ask the universe, the universe will respond to you the way you had formulated your question. For example, if you wanted a Haymarket Burberry bag in medium size – you must really put this exact image of this particular brand to the universe (in the form of positive thinking,affirmations, etc.) and the universe will respond back, exactly how you send out to the world.

It is like ordering food- you have to really know first what you want and then place your order. Once you have placed your order, you are going to really love what you ordered and be excited about it – after all, you’ve paid money and was craving to have your orders fulfilled perfectly!

So, if you want something – place your “order” any way you like it.

But be careful what you ask for, you might just get it.

 

- Alpha

 

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Day 23: Practice. 10, 000 hours will make you an expert! –Malcolm Gladwell

The theme in the book Outliers by Malcolm Gladwell is about successful people and how they were able to get there. It was clear how he analyzed and compared that not just the inherent skills of these people that made them who they are but a big part of them was also because of persistence and practice. He mentioned throughout the entire book that every successful person who is part of the American history or the world history and who has made a huge impact in the lives of mankind would have to have at least 10, 000 hours of practice, training, internship, hands-on learning before that person can be considered an expert in a field that he is associated with.

In reference to the 10, 000 hours of practice equals expertise, Malcolm Gladwell shared the story of how Bill Gates didn’t just become a computer geek overnight but he started way before he went to Harvard. When he was in high school, apparently he would sneak out in the middle of the night to his campus and re-construct or sometimes program some of their school’s computer codes and will stay there until dawn. It was to his advantage that their house is very close to his school, which during that time was the very first high school in the USA to have computer networking. He would toil hours and hours, from Mondays to Sundays during his high school years until he got to college. If you do your math, you multiply 7 hours times 7 days, that is 49 hours in a week; then multiply that by 52 (weeks) which is equals to 2, 548 hours; then multiply that by the number of years he was in high school, which was four – the magic number would total up to: 10, 192 hours!  By the time he went to Harvard he was already an expert. During his sophomore year, he dropped out – because he knows more than his professors knew that time.

The Beattles were also a legendary example of practicing 10, 000 hours  before they were able to rise to stardom. During the years of 1960 – 1963, they were playing in every possible clubs available in Liverpool and Hamburg, of which they gained more skills and learned to play, wrote songs at their best. When they first arrived in the US in 1964 for their tour, they had already over 10, 000 hours under their belt – and were ready to conquer the music industry.

Of course, we’ve heard the story of Thomas Edison going through at least 1, 000 light bulbs before he finally came up with the “perfect” light bulb.  We’ve read stories about local musicians, writers, singers, basketball players, etc. practicing until they can no longer move their bodies. But because of diligence and the habit of practicing, each of these individuals were able to prove that they can be the experts in their field.

Would you like to be successful in your field?

Do you think you have rendered at least 10, 000 hours in the area you chose to be successful in?

Would you like to be an expert in your field?

Would you be willing to continue to work beyond 10, 000 hours?

Practice.

Clock in 10, 000 hours or even more.

You’ll know, you’ll be an expert.

- Alpha

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Day 22: Keep your goals to yourself

If you are eyeing on something, better keep it to yourself. Don’t tell anyone. Don’t let it out of your mouth. Don’t count chicks before they hatch. Better yet, just write it down on a piece of paper preferably on a 3 x 5 index card where you can carry it, but NEVER ever tell to someone until you have achieved it. Keep it to yourself, until it has become a reality.

One of the most successful self-made millionaire said in his blog, “Telling someone your goals,  makes them less likely to happen” – Derek Sivers.

And this is exactly true.

Because the moment you started telling to somebody about your plans or how you would like it to happen, the energy is being transferred from your own focus to the other person’s energy level, which could probably interfere with your own. There are also some thoughts about how other people might start distracting you from getting it or other people’s unsolicited criticisms as well as the possibility of them getting envious to you. There might also be cases of other people pulling you down because they do not want you to be successful.

So, if you do not want anybody to get in your way of success, then just keep your goals to yourself.

When the chicks have hatched, then you can definitely shout to your neighbor next door how many  of your chicks have started laying eggs for you.

- Alpha

Day 16 – It has to be personal

On Chapter 3 of the book entitled Onward:  How Starbucks  Fought for its life without Losing its soul,  by Starbucks founder and CEO Howard Schutlz, it states:

“Work should be personal. For all of us. Not just for the artist and the entrepreneur. Work should have meaning for the accountant, the construction worker, the manager and the clerk.”

Do you really feel that what you are doing is totally personal? That you are totally invested in? Do you really feel that every time you do what you have to do at work, it does feel like it is not really work, but rather a way to connect your life, but at the same time getting paid? Does it really matter how much money you are paid as long as you know your work puts a little smile on your face, everyday?

Or…

Does it feel like you are constantly looking at the clock waiting until it strikes the end of your shift? Do you feel disconnected, unappreciated and stagnant with what you are doing? Do you feel like you are cheating yourself and pretending you love your work just because you get a six-figure salary with a generous bonus at the end of the year?

Well, it is what it is.

Whatever you feel, know that there are ways to strengthen that personal connection to work and life; and also there are ways to spit out the discouragement caused by your work life towards your other aspects of your life.

The most important thing is that you know. You know exactly where you stand and how to stand by it. Make it personal if not, find ways to make your work personally connected to you.

 

***On a personal note:  I am leaving a good position as one of the three Floor Teachers at my school (I handle the discipline of 1/3 of our high school population) because I didn’t feel connected with this type of work anymore. I was getting a good yearly stipend  to handle discipline issues among students, but it got to the point where there was no personal connection to me anymore  - so for the next school year, I decided to give it up. 

How about you guys? Have you given up anything that you felt unnecessary?

- A. M. S.