Get Dissatisfied. Get Motivated!


By Avdhessh Arya


No motivation, no matter how trusted and honorable source is it coming from, can help make your dreams come true,  unless you are self-motivated.

All motivation is self-motivation in disguise.  It’s like your higher self speaking to you through  some outside source. It’s a mysterious and beautiful phenomena.

And it’s taking place every single day in your life. But you’ll be able to understand it fully only, if you are self-motivated.

Self-motivation happens to you naturally when you become deeply dis-satisfied with your current circumstances.

When you see your face in the mirror every morning and feel disgusted, because you know in your heart that this is not the kind of life you were born to live.

When you realize that the kind of relationships you are in, the kind of people you are spending time with everyday are not the ‘right ones.’

When you get dissatisfied as hell, and desperately want to start your life afresh.

 Until that happens to you, all wise words fall on deaf ears.


About the Author: Avdhessh Arya, is a personal development coach for youth and voice actor, who helps young people break walls of self-imposed limitations and become confident individuals. He is also the founder and owner of, a website portal with focus on dealing with lack of self-confidence, negativity, self-doubt, lack of focus and more. Visit to read more such insightful articles. He is also one of the authors of the book, “The Best Inspirational Storie I Ever Read: Guide to a Purposeful Life”.


  1. JayThe Baker says:

    Very true. We must get up and do something, no one else can do for us but us. Jay

  2. Avdhessh, Hello
    Yes, it’s often that it takes us to hit rock bottom or hit the wall before we take the steps necessary to climb back up. Thankyou
    be good to yourself

  3. buena says:

    It is even when people already come to that state of having nothing to lose that they start and get motivated to do anything just to survive! :) that’s the beauty in all the pain!

  4. TKSoni says:

    Well said Avdhessh.Self motivation is an energy which generates from within.

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