What to give: and The How’s of Giving

Photo of Frederick Claflin

Giving is not just for material things.

When you use the verb “give” you constantly associate it with something tangible, something touchable – in other words, any type of material thing. When you are asked to “give”, you expect to give it full-heatedly so the receiver would feel the true and honest emotions of you giving it. When you give, there should be mutual happiness between you and the receiver – because giving and receiving must be equally viewed as one noble act.

 But giving should not just be associated with materials things.

If the  purpose of giving is to make other people happy, then to share happiness and to share your blessings is a big deal. 

You can “give” something of  yourself and still deliver happiness throughout the world in many ways:

1. You can “give” your smile and make someone smile back at you.

2. You can “give” your time and spend it wisely with someone dear to you.

3. You can “give” your thoughts to someone in need of critical feedback to improve himself.

4. You can “give” a hand and help someone fix something, either a clog in the sink or trouble in his car.

5. You can “give” a hug and make someone feel extra special.

6. You can “give” more than you think is possible.

And when you “give”, I want you to think of these:


Give because you believe in it.

Give because you want todo it.

Give because you think it is the right thing.

Do not give when you will have feelings of resentment soon after.

Do not give when others have influenced, have told, have forced you todo it.

Do not give if you do not believe 100% in the reason behind it.

Do not give only to impress others or to fit in.

Do not give when you, yourself do not have it.


Because giving is a tremendous responsibly, you must be willing to do it and most importantly, you must LOVE “giving”.

Because in the end giving is a gift.

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