Big Moo in Pictures

By Alpha (Day 107)

What is Big Moo? It’s a term coined by Seth Godin, which means so many things including being unique, a stand-out, originality and advertising.

I wanted to create my own Big Moo on Mondays and wanted to even name it as Big Moonday, but that is something cheap. So, instead of writing my regular posts – I decided that on Mondays I will be sharing some of the beautiful picture words captured by various artists and blogged by Absterrabi.

 

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Saturday Success Story #13: NYMPHA MACAS

Whoever came up with the idea of: “if you are handed a lemon,  make some lemonade out of it” is brilliant! I know most of us have been in a situation where you feel like getting out of it instead of figuring out what to do with it.

With most Filipinos coming to the United States (or to a more to work, start a new life, study or to have a better life, there have been themes that seem to penetrate among them, including my own. One of the themes I have seen constantly resurfaced is the “lemon out of lemonade”. Some Filipinos do not certainly know what to expect in a new and strange country. Some do not exactly know what really lies ahead of them. Some keep the only-in-da-Philippines concept of bahala-na (come what may) and go with the flow. These things keep the fighting spirit of aspiring dreamer, worker, doer in a country they are unfamiliar with. But Filipinos in general easily transition to their new homeland; thanks to the many ethnic culture and races who colonized the islands for many years, Filipinos have developed chameleon-like skills to live.

Our Saturday Success Story of the week has been in that situation many times over. Yet, just like a lot of Filipinos living away from their motherland, she has gone through many different ebbs and flows of her American life but still remains strong and happy. What has kept her going in the pursuit of American dream and her own personal ambition is her ability to come up with something worthy of her time in compensation for the loss of the time away from her loved ones.

At 29, she is running a marathon of her own: dreams and happiness. At daytime, she works as an accounts payable supervisor at a well-established company in Hollywood, Florida. On her free time, she manages to put on her cleaning suit and be the cleaning “diva” around town! People call her to clean their houses and they love her – not just because of her approachable personality but also because they see in her the inner drive that most successful people posse. She is proud to put on her cleaning gloves, scrub the kitchen floor and vacuum the dirtiest rugs and carpets in exchange for the glamour of her day job. She is proud of what she does because she knows she delivers honest service and also a clean house at the end of her business transaction. We know she puts in her 100% effort in her own cleaning business because of all the praises and referrals that she gets from her customers. As her cleaning company grows, and so is she.

But her growth in her regular routine does not stop from being in the accounting office and to various houses – mind you, she has two more itineraries! At home, she is the woman behind the all-natural body deodorant line, Eco Body Life where she distributes and retails personal body products. When permitted, she also works for a local Filipino Store as a cashier.

As you can tell, she knows exactly that only way to be productive is to use her time wisely – and this is why she keeps on going with all of these paths. She is young, passionate, ambitious and conquers life with whatever come her way.

True, she has probably experienced a dent in her romantic life when she was younger – but then again, she made something out of it! She started these two thriving businesses on her own and dreams of making them even bigger to prove that really “life is what you make out of it!”. And the reality is – it is how you make something out of anything that really matters.

MS. NYMPHA MACAS, single, beautiful, business owner, Accounts Payable Supervisor and most of all a believer that you can make things happen!

This is her story:

AMS: Tell us about yourself. What do you do for a living and where is your current location?

NM:  I work as an Accounts Payable Supervisor and a small business owner- www.eco-bodylife.com and www.eco-homelife.com. I live in sunny Florida!

AMS: What is your wildest dreams. I know that you currently own a retail small business company and also a cleaning company, can you please tell us how you started them?
a. Eco Body Life
b. Top Notch Housekeeping Diva

NM: Ever since, I wanted to be a lawyer! My dream of becoming a lawyer from childhood never changed since I reached college. Now, I am working hard to be an entrepreneur.
a. Eco-Bodylife - I have been using “natural tawas crystal deodorant” back home and it’s hard to find here in the US. I scout for a manufacturer who produces the way I wanted it and started my own label.
b. Top Notch Housekeeping Diva - I realized that home cleaning is very in demand because people here are always on the run and can’t get a chance to clean their homes.

AMS: What are your future plans for both of your companies?

NM: I really wanted them to grow but it is so hard in this downtime. I don’t want to put money into it because the demand is not too high as expected. I am the economy will get better soon.

AMS:  What is your proudest moment with each of your company?

NM: People praise the job I performed as a Top Notch Housekeeping Diva and my customers recommend me to their friends. All my Filipino customers thought the modern packaging of Natural Tawas Crystal Deodorant is genius. They have never seen one like mine.

AMS: When I heard that you started your cleaning company way before, I smiled – because the name is really interesting. My question then is: What is the best compliment you’ve ever gotten from your Cleaning Diva company?

NM: I am really proud of myself for naming it as “Top Notch Housekeeping Diva”. The name itself gives people a good impression. My customers often tell me that I really deserve to be called a DIVA not only on housekeeping but I have a great personality.
AMS: If you were to give advice to Filipino who would to start their own company, what would be your three advice?

NM: Confidence, Focus and Determination are essentials in business! I am a confident person in every decision I make. No if’s and but’s! When I started something, I am always focus and determined to hit the mark.

AMS: What do you think is the future of Cleaning Diva and EcoBody Life?

NM: I don’t expect a lot but I know in a matter of time, both will be a success.

AMS: What would be your next goal?

NM: I love being in the spotlight in terms of my career. I am working to be a Certified Accounts Payable Manager.

AMS: What brought you to where you are now? Who are your inspirations in life? What motivated you to become who you are today?

NM: My goals in life are my greatest inspiration.

AMS: Did you have a mentor or a teacher or somebody in your family who has given you some words of wisdom? Can you tell us about this person and how he/she impacted you?

NM: I don’t have a mentor/ teacher in life. I am very focus to my goals which I don’t need anybody. I believe that at the end of the day, I am the only person who can make who I am.

AMS: When you were trying to achieve where you are right now, did you experience some disappointments and failures? What are they? Can you explain how you overcome these circumstances?

NM: I never experienced some disappointments because I never expect too much in life. I live in reality – life is full of twists and turns!

AMS: If you were to do something all over again in your life, what would it be? Why?

NM: I never lived my life when I was really young. I used to be very sheltered. I should have loosen up a little bit. I now realized that we can’t have everything at a time.

AMS:  Has anyone of your friends, relatives ever told you what qualities they admire about you? What are they?

NM: My love for my mom. She is my hero!

AMS: Can you share to us your philosophy in life and how this affected your success.

NM: Be compassionate! My mom used to remind me that having a good heart is the best thing in the world!

AMS:  Do you have any advice to get better and be more successful in whatever we are doing?

NM: Focus! Whatever your heart desires; put yourself 100% to it!

AMS:  Do you believe that all people can succeed?

NM: Yes! Focus is the key!

AMS: Finally, what is your definition of success.

NM: Success is an accomplishment that satisfies the heart!

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Thoughts on Growing Old

Photo of Randy Legaspi

By Alpha (Day 106)

 

Have you ever thought about life when you grow old and weak?

When your skin will start to wrinkle and creases start to fold

And when you want to reach your toes, you can only bend your elbows

No more luster on your hair

Gone is the color of your fingernails

You wish you had more years to savor beauty

And look into the mirror to admire your youth and ignorance

And when you want to be hugged or to be kissed

They start to scream and say “Old man with the ladder, you smell like toilet cleaner!”

Would you still want live and be ninety?

 

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Quotes: On Minimalism

Photo of Leizl Joy Nayahangan

By Alpha (Day 105)

I am not sure whether I have confessed my addiction to reading Leo Babauta’s site on Zen Living. If not, now you know. Everytime I get a chance to sit down and read something – whether during my lunch break or when everybody is asleep I log on to Leo’s site and take in whatever I can from his site. Recently, I had the opportunity to read a whole bunch of his posts and I would like to share with you the most powerful sentences from him on minimalism.

I did challenge myself on one particular aspect on minimalism and I will share it with you my progress on that soon. This is a 30-day challenge on using cash only in all my purchases – be it big or small spending. I think this is a right way for me to apply the one of the concepts of minimalism towards my personal finances.

Here are the quotes I truly enjoyed during my reading:

“We are influenced by our environment, but we also create our environment, and we always have a choice.”

“Wait until you’ve changed yourself before you change your clothes and gear.”

“And when you do notice yourself wanting something (awareness is everything), pause. Pause some more. Put it on a 30-day list. Wait. The desires go away with time.”

“There are people who claim never to want stuff anymore, who just don’t care about cool clothes and gadgets and bags and notebooks, who have moved past desiring things. Those people are lying.”

“We don’t need to play. Let’s live instead: everything essential is nearly free anyway.”

“When we start out with something, we usually will try everything. But as we learn, we can pare down ideas that we find out don’t matter. We’re left with the essentials.”

“A minimalist is simply one who questions the necessity of things, and who tries to live with what’s necessary, rather than with consumerism.”

“What is blogging at its best? This sign distilled blogging to its essence: regular updates that inspire others from someone doing something remarkable. If you’re thinking of (or are already) blogging, don’t be intimidated. All you need is to do something remarkable, and let people know about it.”

“When we wear things with the logos and slogans of the companies whose products we use (Apple, Nike, Prada, Gucci), we are doing their advertising for them. We are walking billboards.”

“There are no prerequisites for minimalism. Do it however you want, however you can, wherever you want.”

“Cut back to a few important tasks and your work will be transformed. Do only a few things in life and those things will breathe and take on an importance they never had before.”

“Why do we keep things even if we don’t need or use them? Because we’re afraid we might.”

“Life includes: taking long walks, creating things, having conversations with friends, snuggling with my wife, playing with my kids, eating simple food, going outside and getting active.”

“The most important thing is asking what’s the most important thing.”

Wednesdays with Buena: Crisp Scent

Photo of Shem-shem Pablo

By Buenaflor Laoang

 

Isn’t it so – you and me – we are captivated to the smell of new things.

A new blouse, a new guitar, a new car, or a new pair of shoes on Christmas Day.

Not just the scent, but also the touch.  It feels so first time that we will not want any unwanted mark on it, and we will be very careful about it.

But know what about me – I appreciate the scent of new things the most, after I had just been so deprived, or hurt, or lost..

What am I saying? The scent of things new can be most invigorating to us when we’ve just been or become too tired of some old ways.

Today as I woke up from last night’s raging typhoon, I went to see my backyard- and looking at all the sandy, torn things splashed and spread all around by the flood- the smell of the ground rather made me say, “Well- it’s a brand new general cleanup day! I see the pots and rocks looked exactly the same way until today; it’s time for a brand new look!”

I heard a wife had experienced a storm in her marriage, endured the harshness of her alcoholic spouse for many long years, and finally with a luggage went to the door with her little children carrying their knapsacks, and said – “End of all the misery, today, I will give me and my children a brand new future ahead.”

Somebody out there may have been so bossed around and belittled by the master he serves for ten years now and all he got was sarcasm and disapproval, may at last realize, “I am loyal, but my loyalty will not end to my master now, not even to myself, but to God, and how He created me as a wonderful person. Today I’m having a brand new life!”

Have you ever felt dragged, boxed, dug into a miserable hole in this life? Or maybe, you are simply bored by your hair style or rugged pants by now? Have you grown tired of the old and not so favorable ways?

Give yourself a loving break! That self that has braved with you through all the lonely days deserve to be cheered up. Revive it with something- crisply, fragrantly new!

And may the crisp scent of things new around and about you – energize, invigorate, revive you!