Day 91: Advice to the Heartbroken

Photo: Shem Pablo

I know there was a time in your life when you think you have found the “one” or so you thought that was the “one”. You’ve done memorable things together, created the whole world together and built your life together. You’ve shared your dreams  and your future. You’ve become one with him. You almost lost your identity because you associated yourself with him.

But you didn’t mind it. In fact, you thought it was all right. You thought everything was fine and you were enjoying each other’s company. You were in each other’s arms, talking about life, your possible plans for the future, maybe having kids and building a home. You walked hand in hand together admiring the sunsets, the sunrise and in betweens. Your world revolves around him. You’ve given everything for him. You’ve given way too much for him!

But you still didn’t mind it. Not at all.


You were happily in love with him.

You were into him.

Absolutely, positively crazy in love with him!

You love the beating of your heart whenever you were with him!

You stayed beside him and fought for him despite your friend’s advice. You went far and beyond to be his only ally.

You almost became who he was.

But –  it came to an end.

All those good times, the dreams and the memories are now things of the past.

Yes, I know it’s hard for you to let go, especially to see him go. It’s tough for you!

But –

Girl, don’t let him stop you from being happy. Just because he left you doesn’t mean that the world came to an end. You only lost him but you still have yourself! Get yourself back together! Don’t let the past hinder you from the pursuit of your own happiness. If the past is walking on you, ran away from them as fast as you can. I know you can do it! You’ve done it before and I know you can do it again.

There are a lot more people who care for you! They even love you more – including myself!

Now –

Here is a reminder for your fabulous start:

Daily with you,

– Alpha

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